Call me Madam (maitressep) wrote,
Call me Madam

People are still asking me why I don't chuck or burn Rod's things. It annoys the fuck out of me when people say that.

Firstly, because it's HIS, not mine. Secondly, it is perfectly under control here, and is doing no harm. It would also be a gross breach of his trust in me. He always thought I would throw everything away, but apart from one horrible cheating episode, when I threw things out of the window, I am proud to say I have not let him down. I know how upset he was when Janice disposed of a lot of his things, and I'm not going down that path. I have seen the trauma screwing around with his things causes, and I don't wish to add to it.

He helps me a lot, whenever he can. I can't change the past and make him loyal as a partner, (nobody ever will) I can maintain my own standards of treating other people decently though. And if it ain't broke, don't fix it.

Over the years, I have learned a lot about hoarding. I understand, and it doesn't bother me like it used to. I have plenty of space for my things and my life now. I don't intend to make him feel violated.

We are close and intimate, we still engage in naughtiness. I don't need or heed silly advice.
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